by
Vadim
Kotelnikov, Founder,
The first-ever BUSINESS e-COACH for Innovative Leaders,
1000ventures.com
"I have yet to find the man,
however exalted his station, who did not do better work and put forth greater
effort under a spirit of approval than under a spirit of criticism."
-
Charles Schwab
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Asking versus Telling1 |
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Benefit |
Tell what and how |
Ask questions and
paraphrase |
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When
to use |
Very simple tasks
Critical tasks where failure would
lead to disaster |
Tasks which the coachee will need to
repeat in some form in future |
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Quality
of task completion |
Lower, unless the coachee's role is
to implement a very simple task that has very little scope for being
redesigned |
Higher, if coachee has reasonable
skills and
creative ideas to bring |
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Learning
by coachee and coach |
Lower |
Higher |
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Motivation
of coachee |
Lower, unless coachee feels
completely lost |
Higher in most cases |
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Initial
time from coachee and coach |
Slightly less for simple tasks |
Slightly more, depending on speed of
coachee's learning |
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The Art of Questioning
You must practice a lot to develop and master your art and
skill of effective questioning. The general idea of the
learning questions
is "to prompt the learners into exploring issues in depth either by direct
questions or by implied questions - even a raised eyebrow - so that they
become more aware of what is going on and can eventually coach themselves
and other. Feedback can then be used to discuss
progress and provide guidance, but still by using
questions and the main vehicle
for progress whenever possible."2 |
Bibliography:
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"The Tao of Coaching", Max Landsberg, 1997
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"How To Be Better at Delegation and Coaching", Tony Atherton, 2000
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