Asking versus Telling: Main Benefits |
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Establishing
rapport:
don't try to impress people with your ideas, rather
establish
rapport and
trust by eliciting ideas from them
and thus expressing how much you care about
them
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Better
listening,
deeper understanding: all too often, while you are talking,
your prospect is not listening but thinking about what he/she is going
to say. When you ask questions, you make your prospect think in the
direction you propose.
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Higher
motivation,
better follow-up: the right answer will not be imposed by
you, it will be found and owned by your prospect, who, thus, will be
more motivated to follow it up
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Getting Response You Need:
Types of Questions |
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Open: Question does not invite any
particular answer, but open up discussion.
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Closed: Question is specific and
must be answered with a yes or no, or with details as appropriate.
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Fact-Finding: Question is aimed at
getting information on a particular subject.
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Follow-Up: Question is intended to
get more information or to elicit an opinion.
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Feedback: Question is aimed at
finding the difference that makes the difference.
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How To Ask
Learning Questions3 |
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What went well and why?
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What went less well and why?
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What would we do differently now?
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What would we do the same way?
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What went unexpectedly well and why?
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What went unexpectedly badly and why?
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Are there new assumptions/rules to be made?
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Why did we not foresee what happened?
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How can we improve learning in the future?
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Searching for New Opportunities
"Why?" and "What If?" Questions |
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The Art of Effective
Questioning
How you ask questions is very important in establishing a
basis for effective communication.
Effective questions open the door to knowledge and understanding. The art of
questioning lies in knowing which questions to ask when. "Address your first
question to yourself: if you could press a magic button and get every piece
of information you want, what would you want to know? The answer will
immediately help you compose the right questions."2
Choosing Questions
Ask a specific question if you want to
hear a specific answer. Open - as opposed to leading - questions are those that cannot be answered with a
straight "yes" or "no". Use open questions to gain
insight into the other person's character, and to invite the response.
Learning Questions
To profit from experience you must be open and willing to
learn, even from what some people might consider a
failure.
What may seem to be a failure can actually
lead to new opportunities. Effective
learning questions can serve as a starting point for the assimilation of
learning.
Coaching Questions
Being the core component of the
coaching
ask/tell repertoire,
coaching
questions are "to prompt the learners into exploring issues in depth either by direct
questions or by implied questions - even a raised eyebrow - so that they
become more aware of what is going on and can eventually
coach themselves
and other. Feedback can then be used to discuss
progress and provide guidance, but still by using
questions and the main vehicle
for progress whenever possible."4 ...More
Case in Point:
Dell Computer Corporation
"It is really dangerous if everyone in a company starts
thinking the same way", says Michael Dell2, Chairman and CEO of
the
Dell Computer Corporation. "The danger comes when you fall into the trap
of approaching problems too similarly. You can encourage your people to
think about your business, your industry, your customers
innovatively. Ask a
different question - or word the same question in a different way. By
approaching a problem, a response or an opportunity
from
a different perspective, you create an opportunity for new understanding
and new learning. By
questioning all the aspects of our business, we continuously inject
improvement and innovation into our
culture."...More
Case in Point:
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Lessons from Jack Welch
To
Jack Welch, the legendary former CEO of General Electric, business
leadership is all about knowing what questions to ask of his subordinates.
That's all managing is, says he: just coming up with the right questions and
getting the right answers.
Welch says, "My job is to understand the strategic issues within each of our
businesses where they are going around the five questions:
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What does your global competitive environment look like?
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In the last three years, what have your competitors done?
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In the same period, what have you done to them?
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How might they attack you in the future?
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What are your plans to leapfrog over them?
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